Whilst I’m certainly far from perfect, and can’t claim to be an expert on relationships, I’ve had my fair share of them and talked to enough people to reach my own point-of-view about what it takes to maintain a healthy and happy relationship.
It has always baffled me, however, the number of relationships that I see that are abusive, disrespectful and disempowering. It seems that more often than not, people would prefer to stay in a not-so-good relationship, than be single, and choose again.
There is no cookie cutter mould for the ‘perfect’ relationship, as we’re all different, and each and every one of us has different ideas about what the ‘deal’ is when it comes to a relationship. Our expectations, understandings, and the type of ‘arrangement’ that we’d like to make with that other person we choose to be with is very individual. However there are common elements that when put in to practice, can truly invite and create happy relationships, irrespective of what the ‘deal’ is. Continue reading
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About 10 years ago I sat my first Vipassana meditation – 10 days of silence – no reading, no writing, no talking, no eye contact with anyone. Simply wake up and meditate for 10 to 12 hours a day with breaks for breakfast and lunch and a cup of tea for dinner. It was most certainly a life changing experience of which I am forever grateful so much so that I went back again and again. Continue reading
Why not take a page out of Josh Turner’s book … turn off the TV and turn on the energy with your loved one.
Do you think that this kind of action might invite other possibilities in to your life?
Ahhh Valentine’s Day. Whether or not you revel in the love letters, bouquets of flowers and boxes of chocolate or ‘bah humbug’ your way through the “Hallmark Event”, I can’t help but think that it’s a nice little reminder for all of us to keep the spark burning with loved ones all year round. Continue reading
I love starting the day with a positive – performing a ritual that provides numerous physical health benefits, helps to exfoliate and promote beautiful soft skin, and that also provide an opportunity for me to consciously acknowledge and thank my body for being the beautiful, strong body it is. A body that enables me to walk, run, swim, dance, jump, kick, climb, ski and horse ride whenever I desire. Continue reading
We all have relationships. Whether they are with our family, friends, partners or lovers, they are all sacred friendships that require a certain amount of energy so that they remain positive. It’s my belief that the only relationships worth having are those that are loving, caring and nurturing. If you agree with me, and would like to improve this aspect of your life then it might be a great idea to keep reading. Continue reading
Every once in a while, it seems, a book comes along and impacts millions of lives. The Shack is one of them. If you haven’t already read it… then it might be a lovely gift to give yourself. If you have read it, you’ll know exactly what I’m talking about. It’s thought provoking to say the least, and from my point-of-view, basically just a brilliant and simple way of looking at some of life’s mysteries.
If you’ve ever pondered over oneness, relationships and whether right and wrong really exist, Continue reading